Are You A Man Or A Weakling?

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Women are indeed remarkable creatures and are known to possess complex psychological and emotional characteristics.

If your girlfriend you love so dearly or a beautiful girl you have a crush on makes this statement:

“The Earth is shaped like my index finger”

1. Do you decide to keep your mouth shut to avoid an argument.
2. You agree with what she says just to gain her favor.
3. You disagree point-blank and risk losing your friendship with her.

The Best Option To Choose

If you choose number 1 and 2 from the options above, you lose. Why the first two are a desperate man’s selection. But if you choose number 3, you’ve shown her the best version of yourself.

You display or showcase your attribute as a man by being honest and standing for what you believe in.

When you select the first two options, you may seem like a nice guy who likes to tell a woman what she wants to hear. But in her eyes, you can’t be trusted.

A real man is not afraid to be truthful to a woman. “No the earth is round and not like your index finger”.

The ability to stand for what you believe in at the risk of losing your heartthrob sets you apart as a man of integrity and discipline. Not manipulated by beauty or sex.

If you disclose the truth to a girl and you lose her, it’s fine. Losing a girl by having balls is far better than having a girl with no balls. When you have a girl with no balls as a man, doesn’t respect you in the first place. She wants to use you.

Love from a woman is a wonderful experience but what every woman must give to her man is respect. A man’s duty is to retain a woman’s love and respect at every given time.

Respect is not a guarantee that your girlfriend or lover won’t cheat on you. But how a woman that has respect for her man will cheat, is a lot different from the one who doesn’t.

A woman who doesn’t have respect for you will cheat on you in your own house and on your own bed. But a woman who respects you will conduct her illicit affairs discreetly, in a way that would not cause public embarrassment.

How do you handle being the man in your relationship? If your spouse is wrong in public, correct her privately and she will love you for this. Never correct your spouse in the public because you want to feel like a man, its a shame to you both.

As a man, you must never allow or let a woman get away with bad behavior. If she breaks one of your rules, punish her.

When a woman is wrong, sometimes she tries to make you feel guilty. You must not give in to this.

A woman who gets away with wrongdoing in a relationship all the time starts to question in her mind, her mans ability to control and take charge in the relationship.

She asks herself these questions “If my man can’t put me in my place and let me do as I want, how will he come to my rescue when those more superior than myself oppress me? If I can so easily outsmart him, how would he outsmart other men out there and be a provider for the family? Can he protect this relationship from intruders?”.

These are burning questions your woman will constantly spin in her head when you let her get away with what she wants.

Note this, no man must date any woman till he has learned to say “No” and no woman must date any man she has a problem saying “Yes” to.

Women say No a lot because they always believe men want to exploit them. Men say “Yes” a lot because they’re scared that pretty girl would stop loving them.

A woman is looking for a protector, not a weakling. If you are a weakling for a man, your babe keeps spinning these questions in her mind:

“If you’re afraid to correct me, how would you protect me from the things am scared of? How are we supposed to make babies strong babies that will rule the world when you can’t rule my little self?”

The moment your spouse starts forming these questions in her head, your time in the relationship has begun to run out.

Don’t be a weakling, be a man, and take charge of your relationship.